hate

the word “hate” is a really strong word. more often than not, i rather use the word “dislike” to show my negative impression of something or someone. you know shit is real or the level of dislike is sky sky when you hear me use the word “hate” around. with that said, i feel like listing the things and what not that i will use the word “hate”. relax, i’m not angry or what when i write this post. in fact, it is during a time when i am relaxed to think of such random stuffs. just wanting to share that’s all.

i hate people who always turn up late for meetings. the meetings here can mean any form of meet-up.. be it meeting up for meal, for a project, for a discussion, for catching up, for any event under the sun. this is especially so when the event is set long before the actual date.. or something that isn’t really a result from a last minute planning and what not. being late for a couple of times now and then is alright for we all understand that there are always tend to be unforeseen circumstances. however, if you have a really good track record of being late, so much so that you are on time like 1 in 20 time, yeah i’m hating you.. lol. why the feeling? well, personally i find that people who are always this late tend to send the signal of not valuing the friendship and what what not. you show as if the meet-up is rather trivial and insignificant to the extent being late is now alright to you. either so or you are the most unfortunate person on earth who always come across unforeseen circumstances whenever there is a meet-up.

i hate people who bail out plans last minute. for you to be in this category involves two things. one, you say alright since the beginning. two, you bail out really last minute multiple times, to the extent where the people who are expected to turn up as well aren’t sure to continue the meet-up or not. again, like the previous issue, unforeseen circumstances can be excused. however, i’m sure none of us is that unlucky to have such things all the time when we want to meet. warning the rest early and bailing out early is still alright. i don’t know.. i thought updating your availability after the plans is set is your own personal responsibility and a little common sense?

i hate sarcasm in apologies. i think this is a common feeling among many people. if one isn’t really willing to apologise with sincerity, it would lead me to figure you aren’t aware you are in the wrong, you are saying so for the sake of saying, you are doing so just to get whatever mess present away from sight. hiding the rubbish isn’t exactly the same as clearing the rubbish. i rather one not apologise and remain the ignorant and stubborn person than be the idiot who degrades kind words like “i’m sorry”. actually, come to think of it, unwillingly saying “thank you” works about the same as well.

i hate those people who leech on others for their own personal gain. i think this is the biggest hate i have among all the hate here.. haha. over the many years of schooling, i have met with people who are so and through painful lessons, i know how to spot such leeches. i have learn not to open up to anyone too soon. no regrets since then. i really hate such people for who do they think they are going around to act friendly and close with you just to gain personal benefits.. be it help in school work or projects or what not? then thereafter, you find it totally alright to dump your “friends” and walk out. well, too bad, once i spot a leech, there is not way i will have a bridge of friendship with you. furthermore, i hate you.. a life sentence.

so yeah, guess that’s about all the hate i have.. haha. if i hate you, no need to worry, i will not act friendly. my face and actions to you will be clear cut. just saying.