secrets for you

for me, when it comes to friends and secrets, there are many categories. if you are my certain kind of friend, you deserve to know certain secrets only. okay, to begin with secrets are for my good and best friends only. i don’t entertain normal friends and acquaintances with my dear stories. yeah, call me old-fashioned or conservative or what-not but that’s how i roll.

secrets can be in form of many kinds.. love life, something you did to someone that you feel guilty about, family problems, emotional struggles. the list goes on and on. well, i believe you are smart enough to know what i mean. anyway, i’m sure you would keep secrets of your own as well and of course, you would not share them with anyone and everyone who knows you by your looks and your name.

well, if you are a friend who have heard of practically everything in the list listed above, you are probably what i see as a best friend who is dear to me. nonetheless, if you are a friend who have heard at least one of those, you are also a treasured friend. understand that secrets are secrets for a reason. not all secrets should be shared with all whom i treasure. 

on top of that, for some noob friends out there that i might have, secrets mentioned to you do not give you the right to use it as a blackmail or what not. if you are guilty of doing so or something similar, shame on you. i’m not dumb. i hold the virtue of trust really seriously. of course in second chances as well. one time to many, i would know that i have trusted the wrong person.