love language

after years of schooling in Singapore education system, i'm sure many would have already been thrown with personality test and survey and what not on numerous occasions. one of which that struck me most was some to test one's love language. well, i can't exactly remember when i was asked to do that questionnaire but yeah somehow that was pretty applicable to real life and that is probably the main reason why i remember so vividly. the results i got was exactly what i am and it is applicable even to today. okay, before i move on, i would like to highlight that i won't want to discuss why the school wanted us to do that as well. like why would they eve want to pock into our love life and what not. nope.. nothing about it. so, moving on, there are numerous love languages people display.

okay for those narrow minded people out there, the love language we are talking about here isn't all about boy-girl relationship. in fact, it is more than just that. it is about the love between great friendships and family ties as well. anyway, off hand, i can list out few examples of the love laguages from the questionnaire i did years ago.

gifts. those with this as the main love language tend to love being showered by gifts and other things measurable by money. they would be pleased to have gifts and on top of that, gifts are probably all that they would like to get from opposing parties.. in a good way of course.. damn those gold diggers.

time. those with this as the main love language tend to prefer time spent with one another. they would treasure the time spent hanging out regardless if they end up doing nothing and stone or doing something more meaningful or just mere trash talk. such people will find relationships being strengthen according to the amount time invested by the parties.

intimacy. those with this as the main love language obviously would prefer physical and emotional support. they would love hugs and other form of physical comfort. relationships are enriched through acts of intimacy. friendship hugs, pat on the back, kiss or whatsoever.

there are other points that i forgot but whatever.. because mine is one of the three mentioned.

yeah.. some might guessed it, it is the second point on time. indeed, i prefer spending quality time on major occasions over receiving gifts. spending quality time create memories that last forever. not all gifts last forever though i don't mind gifts as well.. haha. okay ignore that, back to topic. so yeah, quality time above all other expects. that is why i always make it a point to have occasional meet-ups with the people whom i care. no matter the busy schedule or what, i will make time.