couple for days and weeks ago, i mentioned about certain groups of friends many of us have that aren't really there when they are or at times seem to be not bothered about you. if you are new here, then you can read those first.
so soon afterwards, i also mentioned that where there is not so good, there is sure to be good as well. as promised, i will highlight those groups that are really really worth keeping for life. unlike those two posts, i will have my opinions here and there so yeah.
1) Steady Person: -
those people who falls in this group are those who are really proactive with friendships. they will initiate meet-ups and turn up for meet-ups no matter their buys schedule. they hardly give excuses when they cannot make it. their actions are always a sign that they put friends before self. they will go the distance to stay in touch. such people are well respected by me for i know it is never easy to get personal busy routine sorted out all the time.
2) The All-ears: -
those people who falls in this group are those who are always ready to listen to your rant, your praises, your troubles, your joy, your sadness, your nonsense. yeah, you might be thinking how hard could this be.. but wait. the thing is they won't comment much unless needed. they give sound suggestions and advices. they keep their mouth shut when they know all the person talking need is a human sponge to absorb their words. i personally find this people "smarter" than the rest of the friends. they know what to do and when to do in terms of conversation.
3) B1-B2: -
those people who falls in this group are those who are able to tell how you feel by just by looking at you. just like B1 and B2 from the show "Bananas In Pajamas", these kind of friends can read you. they know what you are thinking and what you are feeling just by looking at you. your fake smile or laughter cannot deceive them. why are such people good? well, for starters, they can help you with awkward situations and what not almost instantly. they know what really makes you tick and what not as well. they are sort of psychic. i love such people because they give me the faith that there are many who might think and/or feel just like you. on another note, if you don't know B1 and B2, you are probably not a true 90s kid. period.
4) Doraemon: -
those people who falls in this group are those who are always reaching out to you, showing you great care and concern. no matter the stress and problems at hand, they will reach out a helping hand for the friends in need. though they might not always have the pouch of wonders like the real cartoon character Doraemon, they provide you the greatest gift when you are in need.. company. be it a phone call, a short meet-up they are there. they are more of the givers than takers in a friendship. on another note again, if you don't know the Doraemon in the cartoon series, then you aren't a true 90s kid as well.
5) Angels In Heaven: -
those people who falls in this group are those whom we see them as tough like siblings. like ageless in heaven, they are always by your side. no matter how long you all have not talk, once you start to for couple of minutes, the vibe and wavelength will be matching. furthermore, they make up of all the traits mentioned earlier. number of such people normally can be counted with our two hands.
and there you have it, those are my ideas of really good friends, those who really can spare time and effort with you. such cool company of people are so worth keeping. keeping for life even. here's a pat to each of their backs.
